Friday, July 10, 2009

I'm a mother; I'm a wife

Tagged by my sexy friend Eds. Thanks sista! :-)

Rules PLEASE:

1. Link with the person who tagg ed you.
2. Copy above images.
3. Post this on any or all of your Blog/s.
4. Answer the two-part questionnaire following these Rules. (Feel free to elaborate your answers. For questions 8 - 14, post only the one (1) which you believe best describes your choice.)
5. Share this with at least seven (7) friends on your Blog Roll.
6. Come back to Living A’ La Mode (DO NOT CHANGE THIS LINK PLEASE.) and leave the URL of your Post in order for you/your Blog to be added to the Master List.

Master List:

1. Tet of A Sweet Taste of Life
2. Cee of Living A' La Mode
3. Dez of My Life in this Wonderful World
4. Vannie of Life With Style
5. Mhay of Married and Happy About It
6. Juliana of Pinay WAHM
7. Vhiel of Can Of Thoughts
8. Willa of FickleMinded-A Life That Is Less Ordinary
9. Eds of Eds Mommy Life
10. Jona of A Time To Weep And A Time To Laugh
11. Chris of The Mommy Journey
12. Jac of Mom's Special Diary
13. Seiko of Seiko's Blog
14. Twinkie of Twinkie Calls
15. Sheng of Sheng's Simple Thoughts
16. Genejosh / Gene of Her_HisStory
17. Mommy Phebie of Love's Haven
18. Bless of Blessed Sanctuary
19. MarlyMS of Workplace On The Web
20. Mari of A Housewife's Journal
21. Che-Che of Mommy M.D.
22. Pinaymama of Pinaymama's Diary
23. Pinaymama of a Momma's Journal
24. Beth of All About Elizabeth
25. Linda of My Trendy Tykes
26. Rona of (Mis)Adventures of a Working Stay-At-Home Mom
27. khaye of Welcome to my life
28. Grace of My Lil Munchkin
29. Meryl of PLACES, PEOPLE, EVENTS, GOOD FOOD AND MY LIFE
30. Nisha of Nishas world and baby Alisha
31. Enchie of Sweet Nothings
32. Jes of Me, Myself and Jes
33. nel's bebi of Tales of The Domesticated Husband's Wife
34. Litzie of Tints of My Heart
35. Chepot of Whatever! The Chronicles of Chepot
36. Jarmz of Jarminator :-)
38.
Tetcha Gregorio-Figuerres of Pensive Thoughts
39. Sharque of Being Myself

7. Have fun!

~ Parenting Style ~

1. Do you exercise full or minimal control over your child’s / children’s behavior?
>> Lance is one year and 9 months old baby. Control is not strictly imposed on him yet. But hubby and I are sharing the control over Lance. But I think I exercise control most of the time. Because hubby is very busy at work.

2. Do you expect your child / children to obey 100% or let her / him / them do what pleases her / him / them?
>> No, I don’t expect my child to be obedient 100% but I won’t allow him to do all what pleases him, he must learn how to control himself.

3. Do you welcome discussion or you simply set rules?
>> I prefer a discussion to be fair and just.

4. Do you reprimand?
>> I haven’t experience this yet with my baby but with hubby – definitely! Lol!

5. Do you use spanking for punishment?
>> I tried to spank Lance once but he still doesn’t know it.

6. Do you use some kind of a reward System for motivation?
>> Definitely.

7. Do you enjoy being a Parent?
>> A lot but difficult at times. It takes a lot of sacrifices too.

8. Are you a hands-on Parent or do you have a full-time Nanny?
>> At present, my MIL takes care of Lance while we are at work. We employed a nanny 3 times this year and all of them resigned 1-3 days after hiring. :-( But if we are financially capable, I would like to resign from work and be a housewife.

9. At what age would you let your child make simple decisions for himself / herself?
>> I guess Lance already makes simple decision when he had been aware of his surroundings and developed his senses. Like knowing and choosing what he wants to eat, that simple.

10. Do you and your Husband have the same Parenting Style?
>> Not really though there are some things alike.

~ Wife Style ~


7. How long have you been married?
>> We got married December 2005, so, it’s been 3 and half years.

8. How do you feel about being a Wife?
>> I am not a perfect wife and fall short of being an ideal wife. I also feel guilty because sometimes I forgot my responsibility as a wife maybe because of our current set-up at home. But hubby is more of service than me.

9. What has been your typical sleeping attire since you got married?
>> It depends. I wear pajamas during cold weather but usually I wear short pants and t-shirt.

10. How do you show how appreciative you are of your Husband?
>> I thank him first then followed with a kiss.

11. What do you do when your Husband annoys you?
>> I usually keep quiet and won’t have eye contact.

12. You are buying or planning to buy your first house as Husband and Wife….
>> Hopefully, we could pursue this in the near future. Everybody wants own their simple abode.

13. How does your house look like at the end of the day when Hubby gets home?
>> Of course, toys are cluttered all over.

14. How do you feel about running a household?
>> I love doing household chores.

15. What is the sweetest gift you have given your Husband so far?
>> I bought him gold bracelet jewelry.


I’m passing this to Adette, Anney, Gina, Ka, Mye, Lhen and Arlene

I'm a mother; I'm a wife

Tagged by my sexy friend Eds. Thanks sista! :-)

Rules PLEASE:

1. Link with the person who tagg ed you.
2. Copy above images.
3. Post this on any or all of your Blog/s.
4. Answer the two-part questionnaire following these Rules. (Feel free to elaborate your answers. For questions 8 - 14, post only the one (1) which you believe best describes your choice.)
5. Share this with at least seven (7) friends on your Blog Roll.
6. Come back to Living A’ La Mode (DO NOT CHANGE THIS LINK PLEASE.) and leave the URL of your Post in order for you/your Blog to be added to the Master List.

Master List:

1. Tet of A Sweet Taste of Life
2. Cee of Living A' La Mode
3. Dez of My Life in this Wonderful World
4. Vannie of Life With Style
5. Mhay of Married and Happy About It
6. Juliana of Pinay WAHM
7. Vhiel of Can Of Thoughts
8. Willa of FickleMinded-A Life That Is Less Ordinary
9. Eds of Eds Mommy Life
10. Jona of A Time To Weep And A Time To Laugh
11. Chris of The Mommy Journey
12. Jac of Mom's Special Diary
13. Seiko of Seiko's Blog
14. Twinkie of Twinkie Calls
15. Sheng of Sheng's Simple Thoughts
16. Genejosh / Gene of Her_HisStory
17. Mommy Phebie of Love's Haven
18. Bless of Blessed Sanctuary
19. MarlyMS of Workplace On The Web
20. Mari of A Housewife's Journal
21. Che-Che of Mommy M.D.
22. Pinaymama of Pinaymama's Diary
23. Pinaymama of a Momma's Journal
24. Beth of All About Elizabeth
25. Linda of My Trendy Tykes
26. Rona of (Mis)Adventures of a Working Stay-At-Home Mom
27. khaye of Welcome to my life
28. Grace of My Lil Munchkin
29. Meryl of PLACES, PEOPLE, EVENTS, GOOD FOOD AND MY LIFE
30. Nisha of Nishas world and baby Alisha
31. Enchie of Sweet Nothings
32. Jes of Me, Myself and Jes
33. nel's bebi of Tales of The Domesticated Husband's Wife
34. Litzie of Tints of My Heart
35. Chepot of Whatever! The Chronicles of Chepot
36. Jarmz of Jarminator :-)
38.
Tetcha Gregorio-Figuerres of Pensive Thoughts
39. Sharque of Being Myself

7. Have fun!

~ Parenting Style ~

1. Do you exercise full or minimal control over your child’s / children’s behavior?
>> Lance is one year and 9 months old baby. Control is not strictly imposed on him yet. But hubby and I are sharing the control over Lance. But I think I exercise control most of the time. Because hubby is very busy at work.

2. Do you expect your child / children to obey 100% or let her / him / them do what pleases her / him / them?
>> No, I don’t expect my child to be obedient 100% but I won’t allow him to do all what pleases him, he must learn how to control himself.

3. Do you welcome discussion or you simply set rules?
>> I prefer a discussion to be fair and just.

4. Do you reprimand?
>> I haven’t experience this yet with my baby but with hubby – definitely! Lol!

5. Do you use spanking for punishment?
>> I tried to spank Lance once but he still doesn’t know it.

6. Do you use some kind of a reward System for motivation?
>> Definitely.

7. Do you enjoy being a Parent?
>> A lot but difficult at times. It takes a lot of sacrifices too.

8. Are you a hands-on Parent or do you have a full-time Nanny?
>> At present, my MIL takes care of Lance while we are at work. We employed a nanny 3 times this year and all of them resigned 1-3 days after hiring. :-( But if we are financially capable, I would like to resign from work and be a housewife.

9. At what age would you let your child make simple decisions for himself / herself?
>> I guess Lance already makes simple decision when he had been aware of his surroundings and developed his senses. Like knowing and choosing what he wants to eat, that simple.

10. Do you and your Husband have the same Parenting Style?
>> Not really though there are some things alike.

~ Wife Style ~


7. How long have you been married?
>> We got married December 2005, so, it’s been 3 and half years.

8. How do you feel about being a Wife?
>> I am not a perfect wife and fall short of being an ideal wife. I also feel guilty because sometimes I forgot my responsibility as a wife maybe because of our current set-up at home. But hubby is more of service than me.

9. What has been your typical sleeping attire since you got married?
>> It depends. I wear pajamas during cold weather but usually I wear short pants and t-shirt.

10. How do you show how appreciative you are of your Husband?
>> I thank him first then followed with a kiss.

11. What do you do when your Husband annoys you?
>> I usually keep quiet and won’t have eye contact.

12. You are buying or planning to buy your first house as Husband and Wife….
>> Hopefully, we could pursue this in the near future. Everybody wants own their simple abode.

13. How does your house look like at the end of the day when Hubby gets home?
>> Of course, toys are cluttered all over.

14. How do you feel about running a household?
>> I love doing household chores.

15. What is the sweetest gift you have given your Husband so far?
>> I bought him gold bracelet jewelry.


I’m passing this to Adette, Anney, Gina, Ka, Mye, Lhen and Arlene